Have we ever heard this before?? Has our reaction been the same??
Delly Belly has quite blatantly strengthened the harsh truth of life “Shit Happens” There is no good logical reason for these shits happening around. Senseless, atrocious things keep happening to perfectly good people like us who don’t deserve it. This wasn’t enough to handle; additionally we hear the voices all around us saying everything happens for a reason and its all for our best. Our reaction to which depends on which state of mind we are in.
Resistance (Huh): The initial state where we don’t agree with what has just happened. Acceptance of any such situation isn’t easy at all and our natural protective innate starts creeping in. We start resisting the situation only to protect ourselves against pain. At the same time we are despondent and irritated; we start to feel hostile, cynical about people or to that matter an event due to which we are where we are now. On the other hand we even keep wishing that our situation was different and more inclined to what we wanted.
Are the people who are resented ever affected by our resentful thought? No; they are simply unaware of this and it hardly matter to them or their emotional wellbeing. Then does resistance of any help? The answer is a VERY Big NO; but having said this; it isn't easy to let go the feeling as it is but a natural one.
Surrender (Really??): A state where we are no longer exasperated; we feel a sense of calm and peace about the situation. We gradually turn our attention away from the mayhem, not in denial, but toward possible outcomes that we are unable to see while staring at the mess. Suddenly we find the world around us bunch full of Abettors and Sooth Sayers. Who not only encourage us to move ahead but also keep saying “It’s all for the best” .Having surrendered to the tragic and nefarious circumstances; all we have is ‘Hope’ and ‘Change’…which in turn encourages us to curiously respond by saying “really??…How and when would I in ME realize this??” Hoping what they said to be true and trying to move on assuring ourselves yes it is for our good.
Acceptance (Yes!!!): A state where we have accepted the situation. Therefore it is no longer important to us and we don’t worry about it anymore. We now look forward towards our future. We all know when the world brings us down on our knees; we are in the perfect position to pray. So the perfect position and the perfect pray. We start praying for our wellbeing and success ahead. We become more awake to see new opportunities knocking our doors. One door may have been closed but there are unlimited numbers of doors open with new opportunities. Acceptance leads to inner peace and inner peace is the real key to success...And who better motivator than our very own Panda 
Gradually we reach a phase in life when we say YES it was for the best.
Gradually we reach a phase in life when we say YES it was for the best.In one line:” It’s all for the best” – is a truth that is desired to be accepted and to be realized.
